Thursday, October 16, 2008

Happily ever after

A dedication to those who have lived, loved, lost and continued to live.  We do not live in a world that always have to start with 'Once upon a time' and end with a 'happily ever after'. Come on, they are not called FAIRY tales just because they have fairies in them. They are not necessarily applicable to our modern days love stories. In fact, they are purely delusional. 

Why we were exposed to such lies right from our early days baffles me. If I were to have my ways, I would show my children 'animal planet' from day one. It is a dog eats dog world, survival of the fittest.

Your happily ever after does not have to rely on another person. You are the sole determinant of how happy you want to be and for how long you want it to be. True, it does not come easy, at times you have to work really hard to achieve it. And at times, people will try to stop you. But the point is, it is your life. You control it. Know your friends from your foes, your family from the fuckwits. And remember, no one will ever ever love yourself more than your own self.

So, congratulations to those who have found their other halves (but deep down you still know who love yourself more!) and to those more fortunate ones, continue keeping the loves to your own selves. Some things are better left unshared.