Thursday, October 16, 2008

Happily ever after

A dedication to those who have lived, loved, lost and continued to live.  We do not live in a world that always have to start with 'Once upon a time' and end with a 'happily ever after'. Come on, they are not called FAIRY tales just because they have fairies in them. They are not necessarily applicable to our modern days love stories. In fact, they are purely delusional. 

Why we were exposed to such lies right from our early days baffles me. If I were to have my ways, I would show my children 'animal planet' from day one. It is a dog eats dog world, survival of the fittest.

Your happily ever after does not have to rely on another person. You are the sole determinant of how happy you want to be and for how long you want it to be. True, it does not come easy, at times you have to work really hard to achieve it. And at times, people will try to stop you. But the point is, it is your life. You control it. Know your friends from your foes, your family from the fuckwits. And remember, no one will ever ever love yourself more than your own self.

So, congratulations to those who have found their other halves (but deep down you still know who love yourself more!) and to those more fortunate ones, continue keeping the loves to your own selves. Some things are better left unshared.


1 comment:

c5_apple said...

Some people live their dreams
Some people close their eyes
Some peoples destiny
Passes by

There are no guarantees
There are no alibis
Thats how our love must be
Dont ask why

Bridge:
It takes some time
God knows how long
I know that I can forget you

Chorus:
As soon as my heart stops breakin
Anticipating
As soon as forever is through
Ill be over you

Remembering times gone by
Promises we once made
What are the reasons why
Nothing stays the same

Bridge:
There were the nights holding you close
Someday Ill try to forget them
Someday Ill be over you

Chorus

*Nice, but sad song*

"Your happily ever after does not have to rely on another person. You are the sole determinant of how happy you want to be and for how long you want it to be"
hmm... you mean to say just rely on ourself?!? You did mention it’s not gonna be easy, but I wonder how many people in this world can achieve that as I can see it will be a really difficult process in life.

"...Some things are better left unshared." You mean "love, right?"
Me, I'll share it with others--> Family, friends, patients... cos by sharing I will be happy when I see them happy. Well, if I am not the fortunate one, I will have to do this for the rest of my life as to feel "Happily Ever After..." :)